Be Confident
You should be confident that you are going to do it this year. 2010 is not jusanother year, it is the year. You may have struggled in 2008, and 2009. No matter though, 2010 will be the year you do it for real. All the past failures dont matter from here on. Learn some weight loss tips to get lean and tons of other knowledge this year. Learn what you did wrong in the past and fix it. The only thing that bridged the gap for me was that I realized that its more frustrating to just do nothing about my fitness than it is to just put in the work and feel good about myself.